You’re not a reward that you’re afraid of others not having; you might miss a lot of things. You might be the toxic people you think others are. Letting go does not mean finding a replacement, it means letting them do what they are doing and stop chasing. When you chase people you put them on a walking pedestal and they run away from you.
Life is like writing letters to a person who does not reply. People have a limitation of not being unable themself unhappy. With all the learning and getting all the things in life, we become the Human BEING. It’s a contentious process, how we become the human BEING. Don’t overstate your value, do not make yourself a GOD. That’s why we need the ability to have the SELF Devaluation.